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What you think… really matters!

Ashley

You have probably heard that the mind is a powerful thing. But do you know how to use it? I'm sure you've also heard that what we think matters, but you may not know why or how this is true. In this article, I'll be exploring the relationship between our thoughts and emotions, as well as some of the ways we can help ourselves by managing our own minds better. This is important because a lot of people suffer from depression and anxiety in their lives, and these issues can be prevented if we teach students how to manage their emotions early on in life.


The mind is a complex thing, and not all thoughts that pass through it lead to our best interests.


The mind is a complex thing, and not all thoughts that pass through it lead to our best interests. Sometimes the negative ones can be bullies, making us feel bad about ourselves or even making us do things we don't want to do. Those are called thoughts that harm or hurt.

When a negative thought arises in your mind, like “I'm fat” or “I hate my job” or "No one likes me," you may notice yourself getting upset at the thought itself instead of just noticing it as an idea passing through your head. This can make you feel worse than if you had let go of the thought without judgment immediately after it popped into your mind—even though once again, these types of thoughts are simply temporary visitors in your brain!


We must be careful when choosing our thoughts because they are not always good.


It is important to be mindful of our thoughts because they can affect how we feel. When we have negative thoughts, these can have a big impact on our mental health. For example, if you are feeling anxious about something and then think “Oh no! I’m such an idiot! I will never get this right!” then it will make your anxiety worse. However, if you tell yourself “I will try my best and see what happens” then it might help to reduce your anxiety because it sounds more realistic (and therefore less scary).


You can also use mindfulness techniques like meditation or mindful breathing when having negative thoughts so that they don’t take over and upset you too much. This can help remind yourself that the things that pop into mind aren't always true or helpful – they're just thoughts! Journaling these thoughts can also help with sorting out these thoughts. If you're on a journey to change some things in your life, grab a journal and just start writing. You'll be amazed at how the thoughts you have in your mind!


We're in charge of our mind and it will only hurt us if we treat it like an object.


We're not objects. We're not physical beings that exist in a world of objects. Our mind is a power and it will only hurt us if we treat it like an object.


The first step in achieving success is to know that your thoughts are NOT real, they are just words in your head. They have no power over you unless you give them power by believing them to be true and acting on them accordingly. If someone says something mean about you or your work, don't take it personally—that's their opinion! Instead of reacting with anger and resentment, be curious about why the person said what he said because often there is a kernel of truth buried deep within those insults; maybe there was something about yourself or your product/service that wasn't up to par? Maybe he was just having a bad day?


Most of the time, we're more than capable of deciding what to think.


Not only can you choose what to think, but you usually do so without even realizing it. Let's say that you're feeling a bit down and want to change your mood. You decide to listen to some music and find one of your favorite songs. The song is upbeat, so it makes sense that it would help lift your spirits, right? This is an example of choosing how we think—in this case, by listening selectively rather than passively accepting whatever comes on the radio or Spotify's recommendations algorithm.

You may have also seen someone get angry at another driver for cutting them off in traffic or making a rude gesture at them (or vice versa). In these cases, what happens? The driver who gets cut off doesn't just shrug it off and drive away; they honk their horn or give an angry hand gesture back in response! This demonstrates another example of choosing how we think: by reacting with anger instead of remaining calm under pressure.


The mind is a power and people can be bullies of it, leading to unhealthy thoughts, feelings and actions.


The mind is a powerful thing. People can use their minds to bully others, leading to unhealthy thoughts, feelings and actions. But you also have the power to choose your thoughts. If someone bullies you or makes you feel bad about yourself, it’s not because they are better than you—it’s because they are choosing not to be better than you. You can choose how you think about something even if someone else has hurt your feelings or made fun of something about you that makes them uncomfortable when they see it in themselves too!


We have control over what we think and the way we react to the world around us


We have control over what we think and the way we react to the world around us. We can choose our thoughts, which will eventually affect our emotions, behaviors and actions.

We can choose to be happy, grateful or positive at any given time! We can also choose not to be sad, negative or angry if we don’t want those feelings.


I know that sounds like a very simple thing to do but it is often difficult because of how tempted we are by our thoughts and feelings from outside sources (TV/social media/news).


Conclusion


It's important to remember that you have control over your mind. It's not something that can be manipulated by others, and it's up to each person to decide what they think about the world around them. Your thoughts can hurt or help; they're up to you.



 
 
 

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