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Connecting with your emotions


Every one of us has emotions.


Every one of us has emotions. Emotions are how we react to the world around us. They help us make decisions, enjoy life, and feel connected to others near and far. Sometimes our emotions drive us to do things that aren’t good for us—like yelling at someone when we are angry or eating a whole box of cookies or bag of chips when we feel sad. But most of the time, emotions help us function as healthy human beings.

Some people believe that it’s bad or wrong to have any emotion at all! They think it means you're doing something wrong, even if that's not true at all! This kind of thinking can be dangerous because then people don't feel comfortable letting themselves express their feelings in a healthy way (which is really important if you want friends or partners who will listen). Some people believe it's better not to show any emotion at all than to show what one feels is too much emotion! I've seen this happen in some families where parents seem like they hate each other but won't divorce or even speak because they would rather have some odd disagreement.


There are several ways to identify these emotions.

There are several ways to identify these emotions. You can look at how you feel about a situation, or how you are reacting to it. You can also look at how you are interacting with others. Or, if that doesn't work for you, then consider the following:

  • How do I feel about myself?

  • How do I feel about others around me?

  • What is my emotional state?

  • Are there any physical signs that tell me something about my emotional state?



Knowing the emotion can help us see what is happening in a situation.


Knowing the emotion can help us see what is happening in a situation. For example, when someone is happy and excited, they will smile and laugh. When they are sad or depressed, their face may look different than normal. The person's emotional state can give you clues about how to respond (e.g., by smiling back). You might also be able to tell what is going on inside their head (such as thinking about something that made them angry).


Keep an open mind that there can be something more going on than we can see immediately.

  • Open your mind: When we hear something that upsets us, it's easy to jump to conclusions and assume we know what's going on. But often the problem is far more complex than that—and not just because of the usual "he said/she said" scenario. Your friend could be dealing with something in her life you don't know about, like an illness or financial stress. The best thing you can do is keep an open mind while maintaining a sense of empathy for your loved one's point of view as well as yours.

  • Be compassionate: Acknowledge that there are some things out of our control and that sometimes people need help getting through them (even if they don't always ask for it). You can help by being there whenever possible without making assumptions about their problems or trying too hard to solve them—just listen and ask questions when appropriate (and make sure you're keeping your emotions in check).

  • Don't judge others' actions: No matter how upset someone makes us feel sometimes, remember that everyone has their own story; it might not be ours but theirs—so let them tell it! It's also important not to criticize anyone else based on what has happened between two people who aren't present…we all have different perspectives on situations due to where we stand at any given moment so try not to judge other people just because they reacted differently than what would have been ideal under given circumstances

Emotions are not weak.


Another way to look at it is that emotions help you understand your thoughts and feelings. Your emotions are not a weakness, but they can be if you use them as an excuse not to take action or change the situation around you. However, once you've learned how to recognize your emotions as they come up in life, you can use them as a strength because when we recognize our negative feelings, we're better equipped to work through problems and create positive change for ourselves!


Emotions do not make us weak or strong, they are just part of our being human.


The next time you feel a strong emotion, take a moment to ask yourself what exactly it is that you are feeling. Are you angry? Sad? Happy? or even Hungry?

Once you've identified your emotions, don't beat yourself up for having them! It's totally normal to have a range of emotions on a given day—and they can actually be beneficial. Emotions help us make decisions and navigate through life with ease. In fact, being able to recognize these strong feelings and express them honestly is one of the most important skills we learn as children growing up (alongside how not to eat glue). Many people grow up thinking that their feelings are invalid and are their own personal possession So whether or not your friends or family members choose to display their own emotional reactions openly, consider yourself lucky if you're able to communicate yours confidently!


We all have feelings and expressing them is important.


We all have feelings and expressing them is important. It's how we show others how we feel, and it's a way to connect with each other. Some people have a hard time expressing their feelings, but that doesn't mean you should hide your emotions! Feelings are not a sign of weakness; they're just part of being human. There's no right or wrong way to express yourself—just whatever makes you comfortable! Expressing your feelings is what makes you stronger (that is of course - if you are doing so positively and safely). Be who you are! You are your own self and the emotions of others should not hinder your growth.


Don't allow someone's actions or words to belittle your emotions.


Emotions are real, and they deserve to be respected as such. It’s okay to feel hurt, angry, frustrated, or sad. You don’t need anyone else's permission to have feelings—they simply exist. Often times when you're feeling a certain way, someone will try to tell you how you should be reacting instead of letting your emotions run their course.

This is where it gets tricky: Your emotions may not always align with reality (for example, if someone tells me an upsetting news story about their own life). But even when that is the case, my reaction shouldn't be dictated by anyone else's wishes for how I should feel about something or what my reaction should be.


If we want to grow as people, we must learn to talk about, work through and accept our emotions and feelings.


If we want to grow as people, we must learn to talk about, work through and accept our emotions and feelings. It's not just about finding a way to express ourselves; it's also about knowing how to experience them in the first place. We can't hide our feelings forever. They will come out eventually - either through anger or depression or any other emotion that arises from having unprocessed emotions inside us.

We have all heard that "actions speak louder than words". But this is only part of the story when it comes to communicating with others: words don't mean anything unless they're backed up by an authentic expression of emotion or feeling!


Be compassionate to yourself and others, even when emotion seems like it is too much to bear at the time.


Compassion is the ability to feel someone's pain or suffering and respond with kindness. This definition can be applied to our emotions as well. When an emotion seems like it is too much to bear at the time, you may find yourself judging yourself or other people who are experiencing these same emotions. However, instead of condemning yourself for your sadness or frustration, try being compassionate towards your own experience by accepting that there are many ways to feel in any given moment. You are not alone in having difficult experiences; everyone goes through hardship at some point in their lives!

While it might be tempting to push away negative feelings or pretend they don't exist, this strategy rarely works out well for anyone involved—and it certainly doesn't help us get closer to understanding our emotions more deeply (and therefore living a happier life). Instead of pushing away what we don't want, embrace all parts of yourself with acceptance and compassion—with each part comes an opportunity for growth!


Emotions change quickly and often so don't let one emotion define us for too long.


Do you ever feel like emotions are hard to understand? The reason for this is that they are complex and change quickly. Some of the reasons why it's important to talk about our emotions with someone we trust include:

  • Understanding how we feel and why we feel this way can help us deal with emotions in a healthy way.

  • If we don't understand our feelings, then other people won't be able to understand them either. This means that no one will know what's going on with us!

Allowing yourself to feel your emotions is not a weakness, but a strength.


It’s important to be able to recognize your emotions and to be able to express them in a constructive way.


When you do this, you are exercising your emotional intelligence. When we talk about emotional intelligence, what we're really talking about is the ability to understand and manage our own emotions—and those of others—in healthy ways that don’t cause damage or pain for either party.


The ability to both recognize and express our emotions is something many of us don't learn how to do until later in life. Sometimes it's because we feel ashamed of certain feelings; other times it's because we've never been shown how important it is that we express ourselves clearly (or at all!).


Learning how to identify and communicate your feelings effectively can help guide you through difficult situations with friends or family members who might not always understand why things are bothering you so much right now!

 
 
 

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2 Comments


Caleb Thomas
Caleb Thomas
Jun 13, 2022

Wonderful post! This was a perfect read for me today. Thank you!

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Ashley
Aug 08, 2022
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I’m glad you enjoyed!! Thank you!

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